Bad Romance

Relationships these days:

'Look here for Romance. Look else where for Love .'

Q

Kiss my Bikini Bottom !

In order for grumpy Squidward to come into the picture, Patrick the Starfish, HAS TO SHIP OUT of the lagoon!!!

Q .... Only then can Sponge Bob be free to Fish again.

Lip tasting: The Chemistry of Kissing

Kissing: The buffet of Love Hormones

Yes, Love is blind.
It's all about the taste.


We all know ,

the opportunity to kiss someone you like is Magical.

In fact , it almost ranks higher than sex. ^^)

Some facts I just gotta read off some trivia research papers today i would like to share,and its not just tongues and saliva.

The Raging Hormones of locked Lips:

1) Testosterone: Sex

2) Dopamine: Romance

3) Oxytocin: Relationship

4) Adrenaline: Excitement

5) Endorphin: Happiness

6) Serotonin: Mood

There's research suggesting that a kiss is what breaks or seals the deal for a relationship; whether the partner is really compatible.

So yes, I recommend a Kiss-Buffet.

Getit? Summarised and ready for Love. ;-)
Q...

OMG

Fate and Destiny

When there are so much in common that it's not 'Mere Coincidence' anymore.

Does it mean it's 'confidence' and 'Co-existance'?

It's confusing.

It's concerting.

It's convoluted.

It's convincing.

Q ...OMG.
Give time.

No Bulls! Only great Wishes.

Hppy CNY for ya 'll Beautiful folks !^^



The year ahead will be in a financial turmoil for many one of us.

It's not gonna be a bullish year for businesses . Big bonuses are a thing of the recent past.

So let's be positive and hope for other things this year.

Such as romance (and lust!) . Happiness and a sense of accomplishment in what ever we do.

And hopefully pave the way ahead for better things to come.

Happy NIU Year!!!

Q.. XOXO

Upside Down Xmas

See it right.

"Evoking a 12th century Central European tradition of hanging a tree from the ceiling at Christmas, this unique 4' pre-lit fir attaches to your ceiling, allowing more room in less-spacious areas for the placement of furniture or more decorations underneath."

Really?!

Were there people that forward thinking (aka read : Blasphemous) way back then already? ^^

Still, it's mightly creative and novel.

An inverted Xmas Tree hanging in and from the corner cornice. Taking up the only space there is ; up there.

Perfect for the cramped urban apartment in the city where permanent furniture , and not a one-of-tree, that takes precedence in the precious living space.

*Alright! For those traditional folks who are screaming 'Good Lord!', there's still the more conventional upright tree but still a 'corner' piece. Good for those whose living area is still more spacious than their cramped mentalities...


In a way, posting this is both a casual tongue-in-cheek lifestyle review and in retropect, how my 25th of December was spent. :(

Uneventful and without my Dearest beside me.

Spending Christmas alone.

Q... the kiss under the Mistle Toe never came...

One Night Stand. Alone.

It's exactly 7pm here in Kuala Lumpur.

First Class seats on my jouney here was expensive but worth it.

As I'm typing this in the executive lounge of my hotel suite, with the world famous Petronas Twin Towers behind him (as in LITERALLY BEHIND me; the view is magnificent.) , with a VIP-only Rave Party to head to tonight, I should be enjoying my self.

I should be leaving the problems where home is.

But , still, I'm left here staring at the beautiful scenery outside my window, wondering where my Baby is.

Is my Baby even thinking of me?

What's my baby doing back in Jakarta?

Cruel , my baby is.

I'm sad. I'm devastated. I'm lonely.

Waiting for an elusive message. Waiting for the elusive call.

I'm sad. I really am.

Q ... I pray for peace. Not numbness. I pray for my baby coming back to me.

I must be Mightier.

LOVE: Stronger Apart Stronger Together

Am terribly distraught.

The pains of being in Love.

The pain of avoidance from the one you love most. :(


Lo and Behold!

A close friend had come to my rescue.

With words of wisdom and peace.

Read on and be touched...
***
Joyce says:

to move someone mighty

Joyce says:
u need to be mightier

Joyce says:
and might

Joyce says:
is not displayed through force

Joyce says:
but can only be tamed and shown

Joyce says:
through courage, n true strength

Joyce says:
that will radiate its own light

Joyce says:
so gently but surely

Joyce says:
make her come to see how wonderful u are

Joyce says:
there is no need to act desperate

Joyce says:
just like when u choose your wife

Joyce says:
u wil never want to be with a woman

Joyce says:
that needs u

Joyce says:
is desperate for u

Joyce says:
u would want want that respects u

Joyce says:
gives u time and space

Joyce says:
and yet

Joyce says:
love u in her own way

Joyce says:
like u hire a computer technician

Joyce says:
u dun want a newbie who's still learning

Joyce says:
u want a professional that

Joyce says:
u dun have to teach

Joyce says:
so, take this time apart

Joyce says:
to polish yourself

Joyce says:
grow in your character

Joyce says:
and person

Joyce says:
and she will know what she has missed out on

Joyce says:
and if its really love

Joyce says:
it will come back to u

Joyce says:
and u will understand this after u read what i've sent to u

Joyce says:
love yourself first

Joyce says:
and to touch a girl's heart

Joyce says:
its never through look

Joyce says:
its through sincerity

Joyce says:
and most importantly

Joyce says:
through her heart

Joyce says:
make her understand what love is about

Joyce says:
send her this if it touches yours

Joyce says:
n explain to her what u have learnt

Joyce says:
and if she chooses to ignore u

Joyce says:
don't beat yourself up on it

Joyce says:
cuz everything that happens has a reason

Joyce says:
and u will have another season

Joyce says:
another love yet again

Joyce says:
and this time u will be better for the person

Joyce says:
take this experience and cherish it

Joyce says:
savour the moments if u must

Joyce says:
make this your eternal memory

Joyce says:
of only goodness

Joyce says:
and see how u can move to greater stuff in your life

Joyce says:
don't let this set u back

Joyce says:
remember

Joyce says:
law of attraction

Joyce says:
the good attracts the good

Joyce says:
light attracts light

Joyce says:
no darkness would want to come near light

Joyce says:
for they will be exposed

Joyce says:
so learn to shine, n there will be more than

Joyce says:
plenty of wonderful people around u

Joyce says:
u are a very wonderful person

Joyce says:
so i just take sometime to share some of my life's perspective with u

Joyce says:
and i hope u can be better because of what u have gone thru

Joyce says:
i speak only from my heart and my life

Joyce says:
appreciate the moments

Joyce says:
for it is truely what u have

Joyce says:
but let it not define your greatness ok?

Joyce says:
for u are made for more wonderful things

Joyce says:
=)

Joyce says:
so as long as i see u learn to grow and be happy again

Joyce says:
life's not only about partying u know

Joyce says:
hehe

Joyce says:
but there is always a time to party

Joyce says:
a paradox but true

Joyce says:
like we always plan for the future

Joyce says:
but the future is now

Joyce says:
this moment

Joyce says:
its how we choose to see things and let it take us from here

Joyce says:
to whatever we so desire

Joyce says:
the amazing thing is that if we know what we want and set our minds on it

Joyce says:
there is absolutely nothing that can ever stop us to achieving it

Joyce says:
the universe will even help us along to acheiveing it

Joyce says:
its only we who are barriers to ourselves

Joyce says:
cuz we aren't sure of what we want

Joyce says:
when things happen n u see it as a failure it never is just that

Joyce says:
its just a feedback

Joyce says:
change the method

Joyce says:
and see if u will succeed

***

Q .... eternally grateful . Thank you!

And I pray for the bliss of such a beautiful person who's been true a lot and given so much more.

Let's talk about (No) Sex

The Dalai Lama, , on Friday said

sex spelt fleeting satisfaction and trouble later, while chastity offered a better life and "more freedom."

"Sexual pressure, sexual desire, actually I think is short period satisfaction and often, that leads to more complication,"

He said conjugal life caused "too much ups and downs.

"Naturally as a human being ... some kind of desire for sex comes, but then you use human intelligence to make comprehension that those couples always full of trouble. And in some cases there is suicide, murder cases," the Dalai Lama said.

He said the "consolation" in celibacy is that although "we miss something, but at the same time, compare whole life, it's better, more independence, more freedom," the Dalai Lama waxed eloquent on the Buddhist credo of non-attachment.

"Too much attachment towards your children, towards your partner," was "one of the obstacle or hindrance of peace of mind,"

he said.



I'm at a cross-roads myself. At a heartache.

The power of suggestion is strong when one's in a dire circumstance.


Q ... But I do not necessariy equate sex with love?

The A-pple of my Eye

What do we share? (When love's in the Air)

Show me some Respect and Dignity . Please.

Q... Not just there for convenience.

Talkin Bout Me & U

'If i told you things I did before,
told you how I used to be,
would you go along with someone like me?
If you know my story word for word,
had all of my history,
would you go along with some like me?'

~lyrics to 'Young Folks' by Peter Bjorn and John.

Yes,

"It doesnt matter what you did or who you were hanging with, we could stick around and see this night through. Yes I would go along with some one like you... Everyone is leaving, I 'm still with you."

Q... Hearts to you.^^

Where it hurts the most

Are we addicted to pain?

There's just no perfect love. None there is.

You invest in it and it empties you.

For all that its worth is all that I ask.

Q

Can you keep a Secret?

It's No Secret that I'm a very Private Person.

Nothing to hide. Just nothing to Talk About.


Q...Cut me Open...bleed me.

But I will bleed for love , can't u see Bb?

A New Day Has Come

Q

No Bounds

QA

Love and Betrayal

Gloomy. Doomy.

For those of you who do not know anything about what the Gloomy Bear phenomenon is all about (like me very recently )...

The following graphic images will conjure up notions of love, betrayal and murder.

* Warning: Not for the faint or broken hearted .



>>>One day, Little Boy, found this cute bear-cub abandoned at the door steps. It looked pitiful and the boy decided to give it a home.


Little Boy gave it all the love he could. Fed it and even bathed it often. Talked to it. Loved it.

The Bear grew up big and strong. And one day, decides that Little Boy was too little to be called Master. The bear was a cub no more.

To sum up a tragic start to a beautiful ending:


And the love never ends.

When you love someone too much, how much are you willing to give? How much are you willing to take?

Q

The Long and Short of it

Long Dist...

Feasible?

Q

>> Over the fields and far away... :(

B4EVA

With the right mix. With the chemistry.

Could it B4EVA?

Will it be?

Q

Hearts Out 2 ?

What is Loving for 'All the Wrong Reasons?'

What is Loving for 'All the Right Reasons?'

Is there such a thing? Can it be justified?

Hearts Out 2?

Something has to give.....


Q

Dish out the Love & whip up the lust

Chocolate Fondue.

The Dish 0f Love. :)

1) Chocolate and the endorphines it gives to make you happy and feeling sensous. Better than sex? Almost. :Op

2) Feed each other lovingly, hand to mouth, the fresh fruits, and not feel guilty about it.
"One strawberry for you. One cherry for me." ^^ " Woops! Didn't mean to nibble your fingers...."

3)Have a little ice -cream on the the side of your mouth? "Let me swip it off for you... on the tip of your nose? Lemme l**k it off...."

4) Bask in the romantic ambience of candlelight ....

Indeed.

" Lovin it for the Love it brings."

Q