Silence is not Golden...***

... in a Relationship.

There are the upheavals.

The ups and downs. But problems don't solve themselves.

Only through open and positive communication will things work out.

Talk it out. Make it happen.

Q ... BB .. If you're reading this... :)


*** Only a Tan, is. :P

Let's talk about (No) Sex

The Dalai Lama, , on Friday said

sex spelt fleeting satisfaction and trouble later, while chastity offered a better life and "more freedom."

"Sexual pressure, sexual desire, actually I think is short period satisfaction and often, that leads to more complication,"

He said conjugal life caused "too much ups and downs.

"Naturally as a human being ... some kind of desire for sex comes, but then you use human intelligence to make comprehension that those couples always full of trouble. And in some cases there is suicide, murder cases," the Dalai Lama said.

He said the "consolation" in celibacy is that although "we miss something, but at the same time, compare whole life, it's better, more independence, more freedom," the Dalai Lama waxed eloquent on the Buddhist credo of non-attachment.

"Too much attachment towards your children, towards your partner," was "one of the obstacle or hindrance of peace of mind,"

he said.



I'm at a cross-roads myself. At a heartache.

The power of suggestion is strong when one's in a dire circumstance.


Q ... But I do not necessariy equate sex with love?

Piss Off

Between you and

I.

You're discriminating.

You're condescending.

You're unprofessional.

You're contradicting.


You're a f*cking B*tch-Hag.


Yes, I'd do what's necessary. You'll get what you deserve.


Q.... Piss off. , get an Education .

Perceptions are others' alright!

We go about our daily lives trying our darnest to form the right image of ourselves in front of others.

We barely let our guard down because as much as we say that we're open and honest about who we are , in reality, the minute we step out of our homes, we almost immediately put on a mask.

A mask that says that you're attractive, capable, positive to be with etc.

And we go about rebelling that we'll we are who we are and be regardless of what others think of us.

But truth be told, people's perception of ourselves do matter.

Are they condescending? Are they faking it? Are they smitten by you, rather? Or in their eyes' you're the most obnoxious or strangest person on earth.

Q