The F! Species

Women.

Nothing here is sexist or anything.

Before any haters jump to conclusions here, let's be honest.

C'mon, we've all had this thought cross our minds befpre, even for women themselves of other women.

You can't live with them. You don't have life with out them.

They take things too personally.

Yeah ,right, like you didnt know...

Q ...

Dear Child ....

Throwing tantrums like a child. Over and over again.

Sounds familiar?

The trials and tribulations of dating/have a r-ship with someone younger and/or ( usually the former!) relatively immatured.

Only time will heal wounds .

Only time will grow them up.

Q .... god bless us all! For we can only hope we are wiser today than we were the day before.

Waiting for a Miracle

I had this gal pal who once commented that I was waiting.

Waiting for something to happen. Night after night.

She was right. She is right.

Let's just hope that it won't be a life time.

Q

Bad Romance

Relationships these days:

'Look here for Romance. Look else where for Love .'

Q

Going Ga Ga over her Cervix

Marilyn Manson wants to give Lady Gaga a cervical exam.

The 'Beautiful People' rocker - whose on/off relationship with actress Evan Rachel Wood recently ended - is desperate to take his friendship with the 'Poker Face' singer further.

As the two singers - who met last year when they recorded covers of each other's upcoming material - watched Gaga passionately kiss a male model in the video clip for her new song 'Paparazzi', the 40-year-old musician moaned and said: 'I'd like to be that guy. I'll give you a cervical exam.'

The alternative musician is also a fan of the 23-year-old singer's unique image because he sees himself in her.

He told Britain's Observer newspaper: 'I was most impressed by her paparazzi photos. I thought that it looked the way that rock stars should look, as exciting as something that Warhol or Dali would do.

'And I don't consider her to be similar to her contemporaries - the other girls that do pop music - simply because she knows exactly what she's doing. She's very smart, she's not selling out, she's a great musician, she's a great singer, and she's laughing when she's doing it, the same way that I am.'

Gaga agrees: 'I don't feel that I look like the other perfect little pop singers. I think I look new. I think I'm changing what people think is sexy.'~MSN Entertainment


Q ... BTW : I may just be going for her Concert come August!!!!

Kiss my Bikini Bottom !

In order for grumpy Squidward to come into the picture, Patrick the Starfish, HAS TO SHIP OUT of the lagoon!!!

Q .... Only then can Sponge Bob be free to Fish again.

Lip tasting: The Chemistry of Kissing

Kissing: The buffet of Love Hormones

Yes, Love is blind.
It's all about the taste.


We all know ,

the opportunity to kiss someone you like is Magical.

In fact , it almost ranks higher than sex. ^^)

Some facts I just gotta read off some trivia research papers today i would like to share,and its not just tongues and saliva.

The Raging Hormones of locked Lips:

1) Testosterone: Sex

2) Dopamine: Romance

3) Oxytocin: Relationship

4) Adrenaline: Excitement

5) Endorphin: Happiness

6) Serotonin: Mood

There's research suggesting that a kiss is what breaks or seals the deal for a relationship; whether the partner is really compatible.

So yes, I recommend a Kiss-Buffet.

Getit? Summarised and ready for Love. ;-)
Q...

OMG

Fate and Destiny

When there are so much in common that it's not 'Mere Coincidence' anymore.

Does it mean it's 'confidence' and 'Co-existance'?

It's confusing.

It's concerting.

It's convoluted.

It's convincing.

Q ...OMG.
Give time.

J-ust Eh???!

WTF.

Q ....LMAO. Bleah!!! Make it Happen.

V-Day: No Money No Honey?

A sign of over-indulgence deep pockets: matter more than a love-you-deep.

I note and observe that spending by women go up many folds during the recent Valentine's Day weekend.

And so too do the credit card bills of their husbands and boyfriends.

I think the commercial aspect of Valentine's Day is a sad reality of consumerism and cheapened love.

Where the slightest impulse to spend and every excuse to get what's neither important nor symbolic of ones love to the other is getting too prevalent and embarassing.

Depressing.

In times of economic gloom, I think spending should be curbed to help your loved ones survive the storm and save for a better future together.

Credit card bills topple lives and ruin relationships.

So what's Valentine's day to these people these days?

A day to celebrate Lusting Love or a day that broke the bank and the bond that brought 2 people together?

Q

Cinderella and her glass slippers

Love @ first Sight

With your heart in intention and yearning desires, reaching out , no matter how vague and bleak the possibilities of knowing and finding that person that'll sway you off your feet, that happens.

I know . :-)

I took a chance and expected nothing.

But it did.

The miracles of life, love and intention.

And actually having that person look you up despite all the odds after a long time later, when your heart feels wrenched wondering why you didnt just say 'hi' there and then, that happens too. Wow.


Q ... there really is such a thing as love @ the VERY first sight indeed!


A knock on your door , with a glass slipper that fits....

It (actually) Felt good. (!)

It was liberating.

I know we still have that deep seated respect and love for each other. And can still talk.

But I just eventually felt a need to tell this person off. In the most tactful way I could possibly muster.

But I cannot stand the selfishness of this person. Not any longer .

***My exact words in text message :

" Perhaps you're too young to know what its like to really love someone. One day you will. Now the world is still your own. You will love. You will hurt. You will then know what's it like to hear the words you say. ... "

Indeed.


Never mind if this Person thinks I'm peevish. Rather that than gutless.

This person has always been overtly sensitive to what other's do or say to thy.

But is self-centered, judgemental, arrogant and insensitive in both words and action towards others.

If relationship -karma is something true, thy will one day have a lot coming thy's way.

And then thy will look back at our time together and things I've said.

Thy will regret. Thy will hurt.

Thy will learn to share thy's world with others.

Q .... my love is that one day, hopefully, you'll be a better. Being able to love more than yourself.

PS:
Would like to quote:

"...there's more to life than obsessing about yourself."

says Pop superstar and soon broadway-star, Spice girl Mel B.

Ending to a Beautiful Book

We finally settled our differences.

We finally ended it all.

For the better. For each other.

We finally talked it out. Trashed it out.

And came back as friends.

With more love and respect than we've ever had for each other .

No longer intimate . But stronger as friends.

I'll treasure the memories we've had together .

I'll wish each other happiness and dreams come true for everything we put our efforts and hearts to.

Looking ahead. Happy for each other.

A broken relationship. But not a broken heart.

Q .... I will Always love you baby.

A & A 4 eva.

The Parcel

So much effort. So much monetary investment. So much of time and love put in.

A gift. A parcel.

A relationship gone so cold you don't even know if it even still exist.


But one thing's for certain .

My love is still there and that's all that matters.

For too long , I was in pain.

I deserve happiness. Because I am so much better.

I'm worth it.

Such is the Power of the Universe!

Just last night, just before I'm due to send out The Parcel, I met my close friend who's been through this with me all the way, on the streets.
How cool is that?^^

And we talked about appreciating my gifts and my life and having enough self worth to seek positivity into my life. She's so right.

There are millions out there who are suffering and have less gifts than me.

If even they can find happiness, I shouldn't be dwelling but counting on my blessing.

My life isn't wretched. I shouldn't let it be.

The whole of this week, I've survived on next to no sleep and spending hell lot of money and effort on The Parcel.


Could have simply gotten my baby a straight off-the-shelf expensive gift.

But that'll mean nothing.

It was therapeutic to make it all my own, the customization and the process of me putting in my love.

I see it as working hard, toiling away and being determined to give this the one last final shot.

Because happiness is not easily gotten.
I got to work hard for it. For me.

The relationship is either saved , Or I've freed myself.

There was no resolution . Such was the cruelty of my Baby...

Thereby explaining the pain I'm in.


So I've sought my own.

And took ownership of my life; walking away the Bigger person and with nothing to hide, fear ot regret.

So, after this closure, I'm either back in the comforts of my baby, or

.....I am FREE.

Q ... a gift for another is a Bigger gift for myself.

In Your Face .... !

The Book that EVERYONE talks about.

Yes,

Facebook.

The culural phenomenon that taught people how to keep in contact without actually doing so.

And we thought cyber sex was the most detached anyone could get.

And we know how Facebook works.

All your cyber-khakis will post a photo here , a comment there. A shoutout of their every doings. Every where.

(We're not paparazzis so we don't really care do we? Ok, maybe we do.)

And then you realise that you're staring at people's lives and wondering why their's are so full of action and happiness. Purpose, even.

And somehow, your own seems comparatively stale?

Bland. Unmeaningful.

Worse, lonely?

Perhaps Facebook has created a new platform for show-offs who get off on trying to paint a perfect image of their lives so as to harner popularity .

Sure, that's what social networks are like, but bordering on flaunting not just one's beautiful image on camera but a huge slice of your reality?

Does adding lots of people make you popular?

Does your life or who you hang with define who you are?

Does travel-ism, materialism , consumerism and elitism define your persona?

Does it also reflect a hollowness within?

Will you end up hurting your chances of true friendships and relationships by painting an image too overblown and skewed?

Think about it.

Indeed, it's all about saving Face.

And Judging a Book by its cover .

Q ... finds it depressing to witness seemingly superficial and escapist personalities.

Oh My Josh!

Fergie married Josh Duhamel.

Marrying someone so sizzling, of course she's celebrating!

Quite the sex kitten herself, this up-coming diva with a Voice.

The Black Eyed Peas singer wed the US actor in a private ceremony held at Church Estates Vineyards in Malibu, California.

Fergie - real name Stacy Ferguson - wore a fitted, corseted white wedding gown with a long train designed by Dolce and Gabbana. Josh, 36, the bridesmaids and groomsmen were all dressed in black, with the men wearing white ties.

The couple exchanged rings with special messages written by each other engraved on them.

'We're practically married, anyway. I'm madly in love with him. He understands how to treat a woman and give me respect.'

To keep the ceremony as private as possible, guests were not told the location of the service. They were instead contacted early on Saturday morning with a meeting spot, from where they were chauffeured to the site of the celebration.


Prepare to faint girls and goys...




Quite a specimen this Royal Princess is having everynight eh? :-)

Q

Happy B Dae to Me. 09

The Humble Bumble is a remnant of another Bday cake Bliss bought for me by surprise . ^^

***Just another shining example of the much love and hugs my friends have given me the last couple of weeks when I was in an emotional turmoil. And am eternally grateful for them sharing their words of wisdom and support.***

(I was so busy and caught up with work that I literally walked right past it not knowing what was installed for me. Hahah.)


Getting older. Getting wiser.

Smiling for happiness. So that Happiness will make me smile.

Last year was the most roller coaster year of my life.

So much happened.

This year, I just wish for peace, love, kindness and all my hearts desire.

I've learnt alot. Hell lot.

And I'll move on to be a better me both for myself and for my loved ones and those who care.

Q ... once again thank you for all the love and support my friends have given me thru my darkest hours of need. God bless. ^^


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BTW: Got my fortune cookies for the new year. ^^ Broke them to see what the slips of paper inside have to say :

Cookie 1)

'Your frankness and outspoken manner are carried through all friendship and love attachments.'

Cookie 2)

'You have an unusual magnetic personality.'

Wink*

Simple words .....

Although simple words can mean so much or nothing.... I just want to believe that simple greetings at spot-on-timings from those who matter (my baby!) . Matters Hell LOT.

"Happy Birthday..." at the strike of Midnight.

After a long period of detachment and silence, is the greatest love there is.

Still, it does feel like nothing more than pain killers to a gaping wound, but its a start.

I want to set my intentions alight and be positive because all I have is Love.

Q .... Luv2luvuBB.
Appreciated beyond words.

Superman (I am Not)

I'm not just a Pretty face.

"I can't stand to fly
I'm not that naive
I'm just out to find
The better part of me
I'm more than a bird...I'm more than a plane
More than some pretty face beside a train
It's not easy to be me

Wish that I could cry
Fall upon my knees
Find a way to lie
About a home I'll never see
It may sound absurd...but don't be nieve
Even Heroes have the right to bleed
I may be disturbed...but won't you concede
Even Heroes have the right to dream
It's not easy to be me
Up, up and away...away from me
It's all right...you can all sleep sound tonight
I'm not crazy...or anything...
I can't stand to fly
I'm not that naive
Men weren't meant to ride
With clouds between their knees
I'm only a man in a silly red sheet
Digging for kryptonite on this one way street
Only a man in a funny red sheet
Looking for special things inside of me
It's not easy to be me
inside of me,inside of me,inside of me
Only a man looking for her dream
It's not easy to be me"

- Five For Fighting

This song says so much.

I 've given my all. Lost myself . I may seem like Superman.

I gave and gave.

But I realised that I'm not. I break too.

I wished you could see.

Yes, I want to be strong. For myself and for my love.

But I'm not Superman.


I'm only a man. I bleed too.

Q.. time to look inside of me.


To find myself once more.
I have a right to dream .. once more.

1 Night only

To heaven and back.

A taste of opulence. A taste of the unimaginable.

Leaving in awe and overwhelm-ness.

Is it to be? Or not meant to be?

What's said.. maybe not? Or simplying being nice and staving away possible pain?

It that's the case. That's maturity and sweetness.

If not, still, it was a lovely time.

No love . No hate. :-)

U see?

Things happen for a reason and will be an eternal moment in time.

Q .. from paradise and back. It was nice. Thank you . E.